Jade T. Hidle
Biography
ade Hidle is a Vietnamese-Irish-Norwegian writer and educator. She is a Pushcart Prize and Best of the Net nominee. Her travel chapbook, The Return to Viet Nam, was published by Transcurrent Press in 2016, and Hair: A Lai Mỹ Memoir was released by DVAN and Texas Tech University Press in 2025. Her work has also appeared in Poetry Northwest, Southern Humanities Review, Craft Literary, among other journals. She was also a featured writer on the DVAN’s diacritics.org. You can follow her work at www.jadehidle.com or on Instagram @jade_hai_do.
Books
Hair: A Lai Mỹ Memoir
Jade Hidle grew up tweezing her mother’s hairs. As the distance between them grew, she began pulling her own.
Born in the shadow of mixed-race Vietnamese children deemed “bụi đời” (“dust of life”), she struggled to find belonging in her family’s cultures. Her yearning for acceptance propelled her to search for her identity in ghosts, Hollywood stars, punk music, teachers and students, tattoo artists, and a string of therapists. Through these fluctuating relationships that dented and defined her mixed Vietnamese American identity, Jade wrestled with her cultural inheritance.
After two decades of compulsive hair pulling and a turbulent relationship with her Vietnamese mother, it was not until she became a mother herself that healing began.
A mix of poems, essays, and letters, this memoir testifies to trauma recovery as reparenting our younger selves. It details how various mental illnesses are compounded by histories of racism, from the Vietnam War to the COVID-19 pandemic. In doing so, this book unveils the shame, guilt, and tragic archetypes shrouding mental health for Vietnamese Americans. With honesty and humor, Hair: A Lai Mỹ Memoir is a story of how breaking cycles is an ongoing process of becoming a daughter and mother. It is a story that tells us that healing is possible.